About Olively
The attachment theory appbuilt for your relationship.
Olively is the attachment theory app from Yosha Ventures. It brings together a detailed Attachment Profile, your partner's style, an AI coach, relationship check-ins, personalized Insights, guided learning, and tools for real conversations.
You can understand your own pattern, explore the dynamic between you, and get help with the conversation in front of you. Your partner does not need the app. Olively is available on iOS, Android, and the web.
What Olively actually does
Start with the free attachment quiz, then explore the deeper in-app Attachment Profile. Forty questions cover eight facets across attachment anxiety and avoidance, with a written report about your pattern and relationship responses.
Chat gives you a place to talk with an AI coach that uses your relationship context and remembers earlier conversations. Relationship Pulse provides short check-ins. Insights draws patterns from activity across the app when there is enough information to work with.
Learn includes four style guides, sixteen pairing guides, and one personalized seven-day program, 7 Days to Understanding Your Partner. Translate helps you express an outgoing message. Decode helps you consider another reading of a received message and decide what to clarify.
Your pattern and your partner's style
Olively uses four attachment patterns: secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant. You can add your partner's style and the relationship context you choose to share, then explore the guide for your pairing.
The same request can land differently for two people. Looking at both styles gives you another way to examine the disagreement. A style label cannot tell you exactly what your partner thinks or intends. Their own explanation matters.
Who Olively is for
People who recognize themselves in any of these:
- You want to understand your attachment pattern in more detail than a short quiz result.
- You and your partner keep having the same disagreement, and you want to examine what repeats.
- You want a regular place to check in, talk through a situation, and reflect on relationship patterns.
- You need help expressing a difficult request or thinking through a confusing reply.
Educational support
Olively provides educational tools and AI guidance. It does not provide therapy, diagnosis, clinical treatment, crisis support, or a guarantee that a relationship will change. The web quiz and results are free. The app requires a subscription.
Privacy
You choose the relationship context you add to Olively. Read about how information is collected, processed, and managed in our privacy policy.
Where to start
Start with your attachment style.
Take the free quiz and read your result. You can also explore the learning hub for guides to attachment styles, partner dynamics, and communication.